Arcana 6 The Lovers in the Destiny Matrix
The six in the Destiny Matrix is The Lovers: the energy of contact, beauty and choice. Such a person connects with people easily and lives by feelings. The question is always the same: does he choose himself, or does he wait for someone else to choose for him.
Energy in the plus
- Communicates easily, has many friends and acquaintances
- Kind-hearted, knows how to win people over
- Values beauty, art, taste, surrounds himself with pleasant things
- Feels vividly and knows how to love what he does
- A hospitable host, people want to be around him
- Takes care of himself and the atmosphere around him
Energy in the negative
- Looks for an ideal partner and never finds one
- Dissolves in relationships, lives someone else's life
- Wants to please everyone and earn love
- Asks everyone's opinion and ends up with none of his own
- Influences a partner through emotions and intensity of passion
- Scandal and passionate reconciliation as a way of relating
What this energy is
The six is about connection with people and about choice. People with The Lovers rarely have few acquaintances: they win people over quickly and keep a warm circle around them. And it's almost always important to them how they look in others' eyes.
The second theme of the six is beauty. Not just appearance, but the whole environment: home, workplace, things, food. A person with the six feels physically uncomfortable where things are ugly.
The main lesson of the arcana is learning to choose for yourself and take responsibility for the choice. The six in its minus shifts the decision onto others, then lives with someone else's decision and feels resentful.
The Lovers in different points of the matrix
- In the center the whole life is built around relationships and who the person is with.
- In personal points it gives charm and ease in communication, but also dependence on what others will say.
- In the relationship zone the six waits for romance and confirmation of feelings in words. A silent partner is perceived as indifferent.
- In the money zone income comes through people and beauty: services, aesthetics, client work, anything requiring contact.
- In the ancestral line there are often stories of a choice not made: staying with the wrong person while loving another, and this carries on further.
How to bring the six into the plus
- Make decisions yourself, without collecting opinions all around.
- Check whether you're trying to earn love through deeds. Earned love is always anxious.
- Keep your own life to yourself: interests, friends, work, not just relationships.
- Replace intensity of passion with conversation. The six knows how to make up, but it's better not to let it come to that.
- Invest in beauty around you, for the six this is a resource, not a whim.
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What does the six mean in the Destiny Matrix?
The six is the sixth arcana, The Lovers. The energy of contact, beauty and choice. In its plus a person builds relationships easily and knows how to love their work, in its minus they dissolve in others and can't decide for themselves.
Is the six only about love?
No. It's about any choice and about the quality of contact with people in general, including work and partnership in business.
Why does the six look for an ideal partner?
Because it's afraid of making the wrong choice. As long as the ideal hasn't been found, the decision can be postponed, and responsibility never sets in.
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